Originally posted Saturday, November 3, 2012
Divorced? Marriage Problems? Relationship Frustrations? Learn to understand and break destructive relational patterns. You may be surprised to learn that your problems did not begin with your marriage. We all come into marriage and every relationship with a "Love Style." We learn relational patterns in childhood by what is modeled for us or how we learn to relate to our parents. We bring that with us into our adult relationships. We are usually unaware of it, so of course, the people we are in relationship with are unaware of it. BUT, there is hope. It is possible to understand how and why we react to actions and statements by others, and it is possible to change the repetitive fight or destructive patterns.
Come in as an individual or as a couple and understand yourself better, and learn how to interact with others in a way that will pull them closer not push them away.